Sunday, May 21, 2017

Week of May 15 - 21

We had a short lesson about "Faith" at Family Home Evening tonight. Sister Hall, a single mother of six cute kids, said she has to have faith everyday to be able to take care of her family and raise her kids. Sister Medina shared that she has a strong faith that Heavenly Father will be with her when she needs His help and then she acts and goes forward. She had an example of just that last week when she took her hard earned money she saved all year and went to the flower markets to buy flowers armed with the faith that her good intentions, purpose, and hard work would pay off and bring results. It did. They were able to make the money to feed her daughters next year in college. Then we played "Mafia" for an activity. We had cookies and mandarins for a treat thanks to Elder & Sister Porras.

Wednesday morning we got up super early, drove to LA airport, and flew to Denver. Our flight was delayed more than four hours and we would have been late for graduation, so we bought tickets on another airline that got us to Denver earlier. We took a "leave of absence" from our mission for four days to attend our granddaughter's, Jackie, high school graduation. We were also going to attend another granddaughter's, Chloe, graduation, but as it turned out she was not even there. Chloe was already in the Dominican Republic with ILP (International Language Program) for the summer. Delane picked us up at the airport. We were surprised as we were walking out of the airport by Ruby, our four year old granddaughter, coming up behind us and taping James on the leg. We thought they would be at the arrival pickup area in their car. That was fun! Then we went to the school to pick up Delane's two boys. She hadn't told them we were coming, so it was a big surprise to them when they opened the car doors and saw us! You should have seen their shocked faces! It was kind of weird, but very exciting to walk back in our own house after ten and a half months of being away.
It was so nice to be at Jackie's graduation and see her family. The graduation was moved up two hours because of the bad weather coming in. It did rain during part of the graduation ceremony and was cold and windy. We enjoyed dinner at Mt. Fuji with Troy's family after the graduation.









Thursday morning we woke up to snow! It snowed all day and into Friday. We probably got about six inches of heavy wet snow and the temperature was only in the 30's. However, it was kind of fun to find my boots and have a chance to wear them.






Savy (in pink) with her project mates and their project.
We were able to attend Savy's science fair, spend time with Melissa, go bowling with Tony's family, shop with Nadezda and Amelia, play UNO with Greta, watch a movie with Troy's family, watch videos Ivaras made, go mudding in Austin's jeep, and just spend quality time with most of our kids and grandkids. (Sierra was in Logan, Chloe was in Dominican Republic, Mark, Robert, and Martin  live in  Prague, and Janel was in London, Gaby was there thru Wednesday and flew back to Hawaii Thursday morning.) James enjoyed seeing how the restoration of his '68 Corvette is coming along. I enjoyed pulling a few weeds.









Saturday morning we had a family breakfast for everyone at our house. We sang "Families Can Be Together Forever" before Cesar blessed the food. We loved every minute of being with our family and catching up on all their comings and goings and news!













Troy took us to the airport early Sunday morning for our return flight back to Bakersfield to finish the last six weeks of our mission. There was the longest check in line that anyone had ever seen. It snaked back and forth in front of the counters like usual then went to the end of the building, turned the corner past the bathrooms, turned the next corner, and went halfway down that hall. We were in line for about 1 1/2 hours. The flight was delayed about 40 minutes so all was well. Anyway, it gave us time to visit with our neighbors in line. There was a sweet girl going to Orlando for work for the week. She just got married five months ago. There was another very nice young couple going to Cancun for a vacation. They are Mexicans who live in Denver. They speak both Spanish and English, but James mostly spoke Spanish to them. We talked about family. Her mother came from Mexico  to stay with their two small children. They showed us a picture of their kids and we got to show them a picture of our family. We gave both the couple and the working girl pass along cards.

THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!





Sunday, May 14, 2017

Week of May 8 - 14 (Mother's Day)






We had another fun Family Home Evening at church with the missionaries, some members, and some investigators. We took turns reading from the Book of Mormon. I read my scripture in Spanish, believe it or not. Everyone clapped for me even though I know it wasn't very good. For the activity we played "Minute to Win It". We had to put an Oreo on our forehead and try to get it in our mouths without using our hands. It was hard! A couple people were pretty good at it. We all laughed a lot.






I had an experience that showed me the Lord is in our lives and aware of what we are doing and what is going on. A couple of missionaries came into the office inquiring if we had a Korean Book of Mormon. I looked in the cabinet where we have some Book of Mormons in other languages besides English and Spanish. There was not a Korean one, so I ordered a couple. I noticed what a mess that cabinet was and decided to organize it and label the Book of Mormons with what language they are. I also found a bunch of pamphlets in other languages. Just as I was about to finish the project and close the cabinet, some other elders came in to check on a name badge. Elder Chamberlain saw what I was doing and got so excited to see the Hindi Book of Mormons. He said there are quite a few Hindi people in Wasco where they are serving. They had just talked to one the day before. So they took three Hindi Book of Mormons and a stack of Hindi pamphlets. Pretty cool how that all worked out!

FYI we have the following languages of Book of Mormons on hand: Abdiel, Arabic, Armenian, Afrikaans, Cambodian, Chinese, French, German, Hiligaynon, Hindi, Indonesian, Igbo, Marshallese, Maya, Norwegian, Polish, Portuguese, Russian, Russian, Samoan, Swedish, Tagalog, Thai, Tongan, Ukrainian, Yoruba, and Vietnamese. 

James had a "tender mercy". His lawyer friend, Richard Olona, called to tell him he was about to be sued. It just so happened that Richard works for a big asphalt company as their lawyer. He was asked to sue Pak-One, LLC for an unpaid bill. So he called to tell James he was about to file a lawsuit against our company. After researching the situation, James found out it was for some asphalt work done at two of his Wendy's parking lots after he sold the business. David See, the new owner, said they had paid it. However, that company subcontracted it to another company and never passed on the payment to them. Thankfully, it got sorted out. What are the odds the lawyer who was going to sue was Richard. The Lord does know what is going on in our lives and blesses us.

Speaking of blessings, we were promised in our setting apart blessings from President Lyman that our family would be blessed because of our sacrifice and service of serving a mission. We were wondering if you, our family, have seen blessings in your lives or the lives of your families this past year that could be attributed to our promise. Please let us know.
Friday morning we drove to Los Angeles. You never know how long it will take because the traffic is always bad, but sometimes it is really bad. It is always amazing for us to see the sea of cars and be slowed to nearly a standstill. There are old cars, new cars, semi's, trucks, small cars, big cars, expensive cars, and junkers, but we are all in the same boat. However, it is legal for motorcycles to drive between the lanes of traffic. Sometimes they nearly scare the socks off you as they come roaring out of nowhere and go whizzing by so closely.
We attended the Los Angeles Temple with six missionaries who will be departing in a couple of weeks. Sister Harmon was suppose to come with the group also, but she was sick and stayed in Bakersfield. In our chapel session a counselor in the temple presidency spoke to us. He said that on most tombstones the birth date and death date are separated by a dash. That dash represents our life on earth. Even though that dash is just a flash in the eternities, how we live our lives here is very important and will determine our destiny. He said the Lord has prepared many mansions in heaven. (John 14:2, D&C 76:111, Ether 12:32) We are preparing where our own mansion will be by the service and sacrifice we do on this earth and by the covenants and ordinances we make and keep.
Elder Markwalter, Elder Larsen, President & Sister Layton, Sister Kuang, Sister Pincock, Sister Martineau, Sister Badger

Sister Medina had her annual Mother's Day flower sale this weekend.  It is a family affair with her daughters and son helping. They also sell flowers on Valentines Day. They live on a corner lot and she puts her little white trailer out front where she sells from. On Sunday her son, Danny, and his cousin set up another stand on a busy corner a few blocks away. Danny said he was a little scared when two police cars showed up and the policemen searched them for weapons. The police said they couldn't be there. So Danny called his mom and she came over with the permit. All was well and they didn't end up in jail thank heavens. Each year they have a purpose in mind for their flower sale. One year they bought a car. Another year they made the money to send Grace to Stanford for a summer program. This year they want to make enough money to cover the food costs that Grace and Jayline will need at BYU next year. We went to help support them and bought  five flower arrangements. We dropped them off at Melva's, Isabel's, Ingrid's, Martha's, and brought one home for me.

Saturday evening we attended the baptism for Lori Lampo. Ernie Lindle from her ward baptized her.
He is originally from Wellsville and we had a nice visit with him. Bishop Little welcomed Lori to
the ward with his testimony and advice to "look for ways to lift others. It will strengthen you and bless
their lives." Lori has been investigating the church for over a year and finally decided it was time for
her to make the commitment. It was a wonderful baptism.
She wanted a picture with all the missionaries that
were there.
Sister Layton, Elder & Sister Ball, Sister Kuang, Sister Hutchinson, Lori, Sister Hogge , Sister Boyer, Sister & Elder Porras, Elder Salvesson, and Elder Fry


Being a mother is one of my greatest blessings! All I every wanted to do was be a mother. When I was young I didn't even think ahead to the added blessings that grandchildren would bring. Sunday James made me breakfast, ham and eggs, and he and Elder Ball cooked dinner for Ingrid and me. I broke my chain of 55 days without sweets or desserts by enjoying chocolate covered strawberries our Bishop made for the women in Relief Society. It is so nice to be pampered!

THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!


Sunday, May 7, 2017

Week of May 1 - 7

This week in Bakersfield gave us a taste of the hot weather to come. We had a couple of 90+ days, Wednesday it was 101, Thursday 103, and then Saturday we got relief with 63, and lastly it was only 71 today with rain last night.

Monday evening we went to Family Home Evening/Book of Mormon class at our church that the missionaries in our ward started. Only people from the Spanish Group showed up, so it was in Spanish. We took turns reading the first chapter of the Book of Mormon, Nephi 1, and discussing it. Even though Nephi 1 is the most read and reread book in the Book of Mormon, it is always good to read it again and see what insights you can gain. Then we played "Signs". It took us and some of the others awhile to catch on to the game, but we all laughed a lot and had a fun time together. It is going to be a weekly event.
Elder Hulet, Elder Labrum, Elder Atkinson, Elder Cruz, Elder Hathcock, Elder Thomason
Tuesday we went to the Los Angeles Temple and took Melva Arce, who was baptized about six months ago. We left at 6:30am and picked up Melva's niece, Marian, in Altadena (next to Pasadena).
Traffic getting to Los Angeles was a solid sea of cars as usual.
Elder Jacobsen (he baptized Melva)  and Elder Labrum  along with Brother John Olsen, from our ward, met us at the temple visitor's center. Marian stayed there with all the sweet sister missionaries who took good care of her while the rest of us went into the temple baptistery. They showed her around the visitor center, introduced her to the church, gave her a Book of Mormon, and got her contact information. Melva was so excited and nervous! She took five family names to the temple. She was baptized for both of her grandmothers  and  Elder Jacobsen
was baptized for both of her grandfathers and her father. Elder Labrum did the baptizing, James and Brother Olsen were the witnesses and did the confirming after. It was an emotional and spiritual experience for all of us, but especially for Melva. She said she was thinking about her grandmas and when she came up out of the water she could feel them with her. Her heart was beating so fast, and yet she said she felt such peace and comfort. She said the temple was so peaceful! We took pictures by the temple and took Melva and Marian just inside the beautiful, huge temple doors to see inside and feel the spirit. A group of departing missionaries from the Los Angeles Mission came in just then and Elder Labrum was blown away when he saw someone he knew. They stepped outside for a minute to take pictures. She was a high school friend and is a friend of his girlfriend. We said our goodbyes to Brother Olsen and the missionaries. Then we drove to Alhambra, another Los Angeles suburb, where we had lunch at the Diner on Main. Marian and Melva got to visit some more. Marian used to live there and had some business to take care of, so that is where we left her. It was a very nice day for all of us.
Elder Jacobsen (Preston, ID), Elder Labrum (Ogden, UT), Marian, Melva, Sister Porras, Elder Porras, Brother Olsen









Wednesday Grace and Jayline Martinez turned 18. We dropped by to tell them "Happy Birthday" and drop off birthday bags. They bags contained a microwave potato bag and a couple of sweet potatoes. They love potatoes, but have never had sweet potatoes.














Of course, we went out for Mexican food on Cinco de Mayo at Senior Pepe's Restaurant. James had beef fajitas and I had caldo de polo (chicken soup).
YUMMY!






Saturday we went to two baptisms. The first one was for Areda Tallon, who is about 60 years old. She had to be baptized three times because the first two times her leg kept coming up out of the water. The second baptism was for Jackson Wells, an eight year old boy. His mother, Lisa, was baptized last December. They are in our ward.






Bakersfield has roaches. We had heard that, but had not seen any until a couple months ago. Then we started seeing a few in our apartment. Thankfully, they are not the "Texas-sized" roaches we used to see in Texas. They sprayed our apartment and we haven't seen anymore lately. Bakersfield also seems to have quite a few spiders. We have seen a few in our apartment and more on our little patio.






THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!

Sunday, April 30, 2017

Week of April 24 - 30

Zone Conferences came around again, and because of time constraints they had to schedule several of them together. James and I attended. Tuesday we drove to Lancaster where the Palmdale, Lancaster, and Lancaster East Zones had a Zone Conference all together.


Sister Layton talked about why we were born 20 centuries after Jesus Christ walked the earth and not at some other time in history. She said, "These are your days!" We are here to prepare for the second coming of Jesus Christ and help gather the elect of Israel before He comes again. She said the Book of Mormon is the instrument of the "gathering" and you can rely on the promise in Moroni 10:4-5. President Layton talked about the power of the Book of Mormon. The Book of Mormon allows us to get out of the way and be taught by the Spirit. The Book of Mormon is one translation away from the prophets who wrote it, unlike the Bible which was translated many times from many languages. President Layton also taught the missionaries how they should answer their investigators questions and answer their objections using the Book of Mormon. He said Bible bashing gets you no where. He said don't open the Book of Mormon to prove a point; open it to let the Spirit teach. He asked several of the missionaries to bear their testimony about the power of the Book of Mormon. Our own Elder Holland shared his very personal and powerful testimony. He said he grew up in a family that were not regular scripture readers. His dad made some bad choices and ended up in prison. While there, his dad read the Book of Mormon and received peace. A couple years later when Elder Holland's brother was a junior in high school he tried to commit suicide. His dad told him to read the Book of Mormon and it would help him and bring him peace. The next thing that happened was Elder Holland's dad called him and said he was leaving the family. Elder Holland said he read the Book of Mormon that week himself, and he felt peace and came to know it was true.
James showed a short safety video and talked about driving safely. I gave a short instruction on how to fill out the Baptism and Confirmation Records correctly and completely. The next day we went to Bakersfield Zone Conference with all four of the Bakersfield Zones and did our presentations again. We left after lunch, so we didn't get pictures of the zones, but below is a picture taken at lunch.


Thursday morning we picked up a sandwich tray from Too Fat Sandwiches, cookies from Walmart, and I fixed big fruit and vegetable trays to send with President and Sister Layton. They had a Sister Training Leader meeting in Tehachapi and wanted to feed the sisters lunch.                            
Friday night was the monthly senior dinner group. We ate at Great Castle, a Chinese restaurant. After dinner, we and the Balls went over to Jerry and Lynette Thomas's (mission housing inspectors) house to play games. We played "Mexican Train Dominoes" and "Golf", a fun card game.

Saturday we went to the big Western Street Rod Nationals car show at the fairgrounds. There were so many cars it was hard to know which direction to walk. James loves to talk to the Studebaker and '58 Chevy owners and show them pictures of his cars.
After the car show, we went to the Kern County Museum and Pioneer Village. We learned about black gold (oil) and saw all the old stores, businesses, jail, church, school, and houses that they have put in a village-like setting.


























The Beale Memorial Clock Tower in front of the museum was rebuilt in 1964 after it was badly damaged from the earthquakes in 1952. It was originally built in 1904. It is a pretty cool Bakersfield landmark.










Saturday night was the YW fundraiser for girls camp at our ward. It was a spaghetti dinner followed by a dessert and service auction.
YW entertaining at the spaghetti dinner. Interesting fact - We just found out that Sister Hansen (in the blue shirt) is pregnant with twins. She has four children of her own. However, these babies are not hers. She is being a surrogate for her friend.
Have you noticed that our mission seems to revolve around food and dinners!

The other night James was dreaming a man with weapons was coming after him and he was trying to roll behind the couch to hide, so he rolled right off the bed! That was a rude awakening! No blood, just a little sore. He said he is worried because when we go home our bed is much higher and the fall will be much further if he has more wild dreams. This is the third time this has happened. I think we are going to have to get a safety bed rail for his side of the bed.

THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!

Sunday, April 23, 2017

Week of April 17 - 23


 
We were suppose to get six new missionaries Monday about noon, but only Elder Coronado came because he was traveling from Oklahoma. The others were coming from the MTC in Provo and spent the night in Phoenix because they could not all get on the flight. They did not arrive  until 6:40 pm on Tuesday evening. President Layton reminded us that the way you spell missionary is "f-l-e-x-i-b-l-e". We all had to readjust our schedules and plans. We had already set up for lunch at the stake center, and I was just about to turn the ovens on to bake the potatoes and sweet potatoes. Instead of lunch on Monday for the arriving missionaries and lunch on Tuesday for the departing missionaries, we had the arriving lunch on Wednesday. It all worked out in the end because we are "flexible". Elder Coronado was only in our mission four days because his visa arrived just after he got here and on Thursday he flew to Guatemala where he was originally called. He served in Guatemala previously for about eight months, but got sick and had to go home to Oklahoma for almost a year. Then he was called back to the same mission in Guatemala. It makes one wonder why he came to our mission for just a few days. He told President Layton he knew why he came. He said our missionaries love their missions  and really want to serve. He said it was not that way where he was serving in Guatemala. Elder Coronado said he is going to try to change things when he goes back now that he saw how it was here.


Seven sisters and one lone elder, Elder Diaz, returned home.
Our six new arrived missionaries plus their companions enjoying lunch.

Thursday we were finally able to take Melva to the Family History Center and opened her an LDS account and signed into Family Search. Since she had the names of her grandparents on both sides and a few dates and places, less than an hour later, she walked out with those names  plus that of her father ready to take to the temple. We were all so excited! Now, we are planning a time when we can take her to the temple.







Friday night we had another potluck dinner at the mission home with the mission staff and Elder and Sister Brown, farmland missionaries from the "nut" farm (almond farm). We ate outside on the patio by the pool.
We each wrote down two things about ourselves that no one (except our spouse) would know. We found out that Dr. Brooks was a good friend of Ted Bundy's and even set his sister up on a date with Bundy. Wow! James wrote he worked in a flower shop and held state records for running when he was in Jr High. I wrote that I grew up in a house with no indoor toilet and then moved to a house previously owned by polygamists.

Sister Layton says they use the pool quite often. They have a pool at their home in Utah also.




Look what I have for my computer desktop at the mission office! This beautiful group of people pop up every time I open my computer. AMAZING!


Last week our mission had fifteen baptisms! This week there was only one. We attended it. Brittany Faulkner, a young mother of a ten month old daughter, was baptized.

Sunday was our Ward Conference. After Sacrament Meeting we talked to the man sitting next to us and found out this was his first time in twenty years to come to church. I asked him, "How did it feel?" He replied, "Like I have been gone too long!" Hopefully, he will continue to come. Bishop Butler gave a talk and had an important question that we should all ask ourselves, "Is your Heavenly Father pleased with your service?" We can also ask Heavenly Father directly if He is pleased and what we need to do to be better.
They did not have the Spanish Group Sacrament Meeting today, so we got home from church earlier.

Bakersfield, California is #1! This is not a good thing however. Bakersfield tops the list of the 10 US cities most polluted by short-term particle pollution. Cache Valley, Utah came in #10 on the "State of the Air" report. That's not good either.

THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!



Sunday, April 16, 2017

Week of April 10 - 16 (Easter)




This Easter week our mission  president asked the missionaries to study and reflect on the Savior's last week of his earthly ministry, so we did. Jesus Christ taught the people so many great parables and lessons that last week. He instituted the sacrament. He suffered so much for each one of us by taking upon himself our sins, heartaches, trials, sicknesses, etc. Then he was resurrected so each one of us can be resurrected one day and live with him and our Heavenly Father! That was the most momentous weekend in the history of the world. One of our missionaries who came into the office on Friday asked why it was called "Good Friday". He thought it should be called "Bad Friday" because Jesus was crucified. Good Friday is good because as terrible as that day was, it had to happen for us to receive the joy of Easter. Good Friday marks the day when wrath and mercy met at the cross. That is why Good Friday is so dark and so Good at the same time.

Here is an interesting little tidbit:  Mary lives next door to us and Martha lives next door to her. They are both widows and both of them have moved here in just the last few months.

Thursday afternoon we picked up Grace and Jayline (they were on Spring Break) and drove to the Antelope Valley California Poppy Reserve near Lancaster. The California Poppy was named the State Flower in l903. Poppies close up at night, when it is cloudy, or when the cold wind blows. It was cloudy, kind of chilly, and very windy so the poppies were mostly closed. It would have looked more like a sea of orange if they had been open.
We drove the girls down the Musical Road in Lancaster to hear "The Lone Ranger" theme song. Then we ate dinner at Sizzler before we drove home. Sizzler has a nice salad bar which I love and was good for Jayline and Grace since they are both vegetarians. James enjoyed steak and shrimp.

Friday Elder Pyfer from Castle Rock was released and returned home to get better. He said he has bad headaches and anxiety that make him unable to function. He hopes to be able to get it under control and return back to his mission in a couple of months. He has been out on his mission for about nine months and has been a very good missionary.

We saw a movie, "The Zookeeper's Wife", Friday night. It was a true story of a couple in Warsaw, Poland during World War II. He was director of the Warsaw Zoo and she loved animals. The Germans came in and killed many of the animals and took the best ones. They hid one of their Jewish friends in their home and then were able to save 300 others from the Warsaw Ghetto. It was really moving!


On Saturday we made some drop by visits to an investigator and two recently baptized members, visited, and took them some pumpkin fruit muffins.




Then we went to Jayden Harlow's baptism. He is a 19 year old who will be going to the Young Single Adult Ward. His grandfather baptized him. The baptismal font's plug was not working well, so the water was draining almost as fast as it was filling. Jayden had to sit down and then lean back to get completely immersed. His parents were not active, so he did not grow up with the church. He said maybe they will get reactivated now that he is baptized.

Sister Harmon and Sister Hayes are the sweet missionaries who taught him.                                                                

Later, we met Elder Rowley and Hulet at the church along with Mike who they are teaching. We all gave him a tour of the church building to help him get familiar with what it looks like and what takes place on Sundays and other days of the week. We answered the questions he had. He has to work tomorrow, so it will be the next Sunday before he can attend.

Sunday morning we went to the Brimhall Ward to hear Jane Morris report on her mission to Chili. She is the daughter of Matt & Patti Morris who are Church Service Missionaries (vehicles, newspaper & referrals) in our mission. We saw the Gray's (where we had dinner later) there also. He told me that another one of our high school classmates, Philip Lewis, was in the 5th Ward. The 5th Ward shares the building with our ward, Bakersfield 2nd Ward. So, when we got to our church building we asked around and found him. We had a nice reunion. His wife's brother, Eric Clyde, was also one of our classmates. Then, just before the Spanish Sacrament Meeting we were talking to the father-in-law of our group leader and found out that his wife, Sandra Page, was also one of my classmates. They are here from Simi Valley visiting their daughter and family. Sandra stayed home because she wasn't feeling well, so we didn't get to see her.  Sandra's husband graduated in 1969 like we did, but from Sky View High. He also graduated from Utah State in l974 like James did.
The music on Easter Sunday is always beautiful and taking the sacrament is extra meaningful!
We had Easter dinner at Maile & Waylon Gray's house. I graduated from high school with her. A couple months ago I saw her at the Los Angeles Temple and recognized her. They live in Bakersfield, but have their house up for sale and will soon be moving to Iowa where one of their sons live.
                               (Sunday certainly seemed to be a high school reunion day!)
Alecia and classmate, Philip Lewis and Alecia and classmate, Maile Roberts Gray
We talked to Janel and her boys on Easter. They are all in Prague. Yesterday, they had dinner at Martin's parents house. They ate rabbit. James teased the boys that they ate the Easter bunny.
We certainly missed the holiday with our family, but were so happy they carried on without us. They had Easter dinner at our house and even had the annual Easter egg hunt in the yard.

THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!

Sunday, April 9, 2017

Week of April 3 - 9

Look who we found in California! Our son, Tony, and his two managers went to their Big O Tire Convention in San Diego Monday thru Wednesday. The convention wrapped up Wednesday after lunch, so we were able to meet them in Pomona. It was about a two to two and a half hour drive for each of us. We met at Wally Parks NHRA (National Hot Rod Association) Motorsports Museum. We arrived about an hour before they did, but it was okay. It happened to be the first Cruise-In Car Show of the season out in the parking lot. James was in seventh heaven looking at all the old cars and showing off the pictures on his phone of all his old cars to anyone who was interested. Several people commented that we were "overdressed" for the occasion. Yes, we were. Finally, Tony, Nick, and Shawn got there. It was so good to see Tony after more than nine months! We enjoyed the museum and car show together. Then we ate dinner at a little Mexican tacueria that turned out to have very good food. Both Nick and Shawn each have three children and are trying to be good fathers. We gave them the little booklet, "Three Simple Ways to Become A Happier Family", during our dinner conversation. Nick seemed to be especially interested as he thumbed thru and read some of it. He said, "I think we will read this together as a family". On Monday, they had a chance to go to the Mormon Battalion Museum in San Diego which they all said was pretty interesting and cool. I had to remind Tony that he had a relative (his 4th great grandfather) who served in the Mormon Battalion. Another year at their convention in Arizona, Tony took them to the Visitor's Center at the Mesa Arizona Temple.
Then it came time to say goodbye. After the hugs, they climbed into their convertible, waved, and drove off to Hollywood. Nick had never been to California so Tony wanted him to see a few things. They had to have the top down on their Mustang even in the evening when it got a little cool, otherwise big Shawn and Nick would not fit in the car. Shawn had a real struggle trying to get his seatbelt buckled in the back seat. Finally, after about five minutes of both James and Tony helping him it was a success!

3 Simple Ways to a Happier Family manual

Troy called to tell us  they just had the sister missionaries over that their ward and our ward share. He said one of them is Sister Slaughter from Bakersfield. He told her his parents were on a mission in Bakersfield. Troy suggested to the missionaries that they should knock on our door when Tyson (the guy living in our house) would be home and ask for us. That would give them a good way to visit with Tyson about the church.
The Slaughter's are in our stake. We don't know them, but have heard the name. They just returned last July from being mission president in the San Antonio Mission. We were able to find their phone number and James called James Slaughter to  tell him that his daughter is serving in our home ward. They had a nice visit and Brother Slaughter had even been to Gonzales, Texas (James' birth place) a few times since it was in his mission. Small world!

We attempted to visit a couple of investigators with Elder Rowley and Elder Hulet this week, but nobody was home. We also tried to help find a homeless guy who is living here. His mother, who lives near Anaheim, called  the mission office concerned about him and also sent a small package for him. He has not shown up yet.

For some odd reason, we went to three movies over the weekend; "Going In Style" on Friday and both "Queen Of The Desert" and "Case For Christ" on Saturday.



We should have saved our pictures and information about palm trees that we posted last week until this week since today is "Palm Sunday". Palm Sunday commemorates the entrance of Jesus into Jerusalem. It marks the beginning of Holy Week. Jesus Christ rode on a donkey into Jerusalem and the people laid down palm branches in his path. The donkey is an animal of peace symbolizing his entry as the Prince of Peace. Palm branches symbolized goodness and victory.  
                                                                                          Check out Prince of Peace on lds.org this week and watch the beautiful, poignant video. There are also 8 principles of peace to help us find peace in our lives. Each principle is explained with a short video.
THE LORD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE!